Inviting ghosts in

Here is why I make an "ofrenda"  or altar to honor the dead.

because by placing a necklace on the altar, I am reminded of the hands of my grandfather that made it.

because by arranging flowers, I am reminded of my grandmother who loved to do the same.

because by placing his book, we are reminded of my husband's father who wrote it (and who would have loved to know his grandaughters).

because by hanging a collar on a painting of my dog, she gets affection.

because by leaving chocolate, cigarettes, a bottle of coke, and other treats, we give the dead the things they loved in life.

because by lighting candles we show that we miss them and invite them back for a visit.

because by honoring them, they live on through us.